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Is Your Relationship Spiraling Out of Control?

by Michelle Walling, CHLC Staff writer, How do we manage things or guide people without controlling them? In order to keep the pendulum swinging from one extreme to another, it is important to understand why we feel the need to control or strongly defy control. Why do people need to control? The need to control people or situations is driven by the ego’s need for a false sense of security. We are…